You're willing to do something that makes you uncomfortable when you do spend time with them. You minimize your time spent with them so the visits avoid a descent into madness. You recognize the issues you have regarding them and you work around those rather than writing them out of your life.
Someone else might feel differently, but in my opinion, these are all very good things.
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Date: 2010-08-26 01:05 pm (UTC)From:Someone else might feel differently, but in my opinion, these are all very good things.